I'm going to just edit out a portion of your comments below because you are disclosing behind the scenes information about our private messages. That's why private messages are called private.
Kevin Graham wrote:
Jersey Girl wrote: sub's initial insults were constructed from information posted by your own hand upon the screen and signed with your name.
So you're literally blaming ME for the fact that he went after my wife and kids. Its my fault! Because I use my real name (like I have a ____ choice after establishing an easily identifiable persona after 10 years of Mormon apologetics) and because I occasionally share private information, naïvely taking for granted there are no human scum on the forum who would use it against me ... its must be my fault subbie went after my wife and kids repeatedly.
Nowhere on this board did I say his attack was your fault. When you share personal information publicly, you can count on the fact that sooner or later, your detractors are going to use it. Put it on the table and it's fair game. It's not your fault that he chose to behave dickishly with that information. However, you cannot equate his weaponizing your public posts with your violating his undisclosed IRL to intimidate him. The two are not the same.
What's wrong with you? You can't stand and deliver without violating undisclosed IRL? The guy is basically a clown. You can't go up against a clown without losing your integrity?
You used the private IRL, not him.
He went after my wife and kids. But you're cool with that because its my fault.
No, I'm not cool with that. I'm likewise not cool with what you did in response. All you had to do was ignore his attack, report it, fight it out or tell him to get bent and be done.
HFS Jersey Girl! I don't know who you are. You've occasionally sent me PMs over the course of God knows how many years (20?). Meanwhile, for the purposes of trying to win an argument here, you say you're not anonymous! Who do you think you're kidding?
I'm anonymous to you. Not everyone.
While you don't know my identity, you do know who I am. You know I will be supportive and you know I will defend you if I feel moved to do either of those things. And I have. And, you know I will call you on ____ if ____ is what I'm seeing. And I am.
I'm not trying to win anything. I would like to see you to bag this deal and move on because it's not winning you or anyone else here a damn thing. It's worthless board drama with no winners.
As for sub, I mainly ignore him. Enough said.