So, I guess if your daughter was on a public board -- let's say, your local high school's board --
and posting negative or humiliating things about your family in such a way that some or many people would be able to figure out who she's talking about, you would think it bad form for your Pilates instructor, whom you see once a week, to point it out to you.
It's kind of like wondering if it would be right or wrong for your best friend to tell you that you husband is having an affair. Right or wrong?
Contrast what GoodK has done to me. Lots of fun pointed out about my physical appearance (thinking erroneously that I am short). Lots of vuglar references to my daughter. Name-calling and such. Exposure of personal information about me. (I have never -- once -- exposed or insinuated in a public format anything personal about him.) You are a mod. Nary a criticism from you. Do you wonder why pro-LDS posters have a difficulty staying on this board?
If my daughter was posting on a message board anonymously, venting about frustrations she might have with her family, I would have no problem with it. Heaven knows, I'm not a perfect parent. It's pretty normal for kids to be frustrated and speak out occasionally, especially with their peers. Your example is that the message board is a High School board. That, to me, indicates that it is other High School'ers engaging each other on the board.
Edited to add--My daughter has a My Space and a Facebook account. I know she participates in conversations via her page on these sites, and also participates in chats and message boards. I respect her privacy to do so. I am not a "friend" on either her My Space or her Facebook. She has, however, showed me her My Space and Facebook pages...but it's HER choice to do so.
Similarly, GoodK was venting to those he considered peers, in an anonymous fashion. I certainly didn't know who he was. Actually, when GoodK started posting here, I thought he was female, due to his avatar. It was YOU who revealed he was male. You made it very clear that you knew who GoodK was, and you later let it slip that he was male because I had made a comment about thinking it rather unseemly that a married man, and a bishop, would invite a single woman to his office and/or to have lunch to discuss what was happening on the board at the time.
As far as your claim that I have been unfair to you about your personal information....that is the most absurd claim yet. Not only did I edit posts GoodK made involving personal information of both you and your daughter, but I also corresponded with GoodK privately, warning him that if the practice continued, he would lose posting privileges.
The information GoodK posted regarding the city you lived in was not edited by me because you had previously included a link to your resume on this board which revealed that information. You have also off-handedly mentioned on several occasions that you practice law in Southern California. I don't feel obliged to edit information that you, yourself, have previously revealed.
As far as the comment about being short.....buck up. If you're posting here, you're going to receive some pot shots. We all have, myself included. It's part of posting in the wild west.