The comments under the Krauss story on friendly atheist blog
http://www.patheos.com/blogs/friendlyat ... ple-women/ Avatar is a mirror
She said he'd said that he wanted to do some work in his room before dinner. We don't actually know what he said and after years their memories will not be verbatim quotes of what actually occurred let alone body language on other mannerisms. She was interested in his work. He was interested in her sexually..... she stated that he's made a sexually forward comment to which she did not respond. That very easily could have been mistaken for shyness. He asked her out to dinner and to come up to his room. This very easily could be construed by him as sexual interest
martin woyzeck
I don't know this Avatar person, but he's making some points, that are exactly what's being left out of many of these metoo situations.They went out to dinner, and asked her to his room. She said nothing. That's where the problem lies in many of these cases. Not saying anything doesn't say if the interest is sexual or not. Start thinking like mature adults.
When you blindly just side with a woman (and you nor I were there, so I'm not taking his side, but looking at all of it), that is cognitive dissonance, and thus, one loses credibility.
CommentTeleView
Bull. If you're being pushed where you don't want to go, then say so, loud and clear. Women don't generally have a problem saying no, unless they really quite like the idea. Your dysfunctional ambivalence is a big part of the problem.
He let her go because she said she had to go - her first unambiguous statement about what she wanted. She was coy the whole evening, letting him go further and further, and then said she had to go. Maybe he was an asshole, maybe she was, (probably more him, because men tend to be) but so far, no harm done.... Then, when she'd had enough, she said she had to go, and he let her go. It doesn't reflect well on him (or her), but it's only news/gossip because he's a celeb of sorts.
cr0sh
> Flirtation happens, no doubt, but one it only happens in one direction, that's not flirting - that's just being a creep.
So how does this work? If person A flirts with person B, and B's ok with it, and B flirts back - is that ok?
If the A flirts with B, and B's not ok with it - and doesn't flirt back - is A now "being a creep"?