Why Me, these are the posts you made which initiated the creep factor. I had more than one poster complain to me:
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I think that the point is: many women would not like their husband masturbating. It reflects on their own sexuality. And lets face, if you masturbated and then suddenly wife felt the itch, could you do it all over again? Maybe not, especially as one gets older. The best way to do this is to have the wife doing the masturbating. It is much more enjoyable as long as it doesn't get out of hand.
One more thing: Since the hand has a different grip than the vagina, a guy who masturbates may find it difficult to achieve climax when inside the woman.
Also, zee, when you were masturbating, just what or who were you thinking about? If you were thinking of another fantasy woman, no woman would appreciate it.
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So, now when you masturbate do you think about your wife as your source for the fantasy and does she think about you? Or is their a third party?
Just Me wrote:
Gosh, zee. Here is a hug. ((((hug))))
The H and I discussed this shortly after we married, iirc. Of course, it was all set in past tense. Marriage relieved us of the sin.
Why Me wrote:
Are you sure? How would you feel if you caught your husband masturbating? Would you be hurt?
The sentence I bolded, in particular, screams "creep factor", and you cannot tell me that you didn't post it for shock value.