Earth to Droopy:
It is misogynist to tell a woman to take her fat ass back into the kitchen and whip you up a batch of cookies. It doesn't take a Marxist or feminist template to see that.
No, its not. Its rude and uncivil (this board seems to bring that out in even the best of us), but hardly misogynous. Misogyny is the disrespect and hatred of woman qua
woman; woman as a class. It is not, of itself, rude, uncouth, or insulting language directed at specific woman in an attempt to get their goat, and it is intellectually unethical and irrational to use it in that manner
The problem here, Jack, is that as a radical feminist, you see, like all cultural Marxists of whatever particular variation on the core theme, all social/cultural patterns and personal behavior through a collectivist ideological template. You have learned to label and classify anyone who deviates from the boundaries set by the necessities of feminist ideological purity on that basis.
In the same way, anyone who opposes Affirmative Action on principle can be labeled a racist, and anyone in line at an airport who notices erratic or suspicious behavior by anyone who looks like they are of Middle Eastern descent an xenophobe. Anyone who espouses principled disagreement with the homosexual lifestyle and/or political movement, is labeled and their views medicalized as mentally disordered - as a homophobe.
While misogyny is a legitimate psychological and conceptual category, it becomes nothing more that a capricious and selectively guided weapon of culture war in the hands of a "progressive" ideologue, just as terms such as racist, sexist, fascist, bigot, hate and Nazi have lost all substantive meaning at the hands of the academic Left.