I have always held the belief that some boys like men and some boys like girls. However, only men who have sex with other men are homosexual. It is the engaging in sex and not the "liking" which is wrong.

How many more times will someone ask for references about homosexuality being linked to genetics in this thread?

There has been at least three posts with links to Bradshaw's research...and if that is not enough, do a damn google search. It's not hard to find. It's pretty well commonly accepted now in the scientific field that homosexuality DOES HAVE SOME genetic correlation. That is what the best science indicates at this time.

Deal with it.

Turns out Josh Weed is a therapist at a a counseling center called "Lifestar" in Washington state. http://www.lifestarwashington.com/staff.php (he's about halfway down the page)

Lifestar has been associated with reparative therapies for homosexuals. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/exgaydisc ... sage/20289 (another Lifestar therapist listed about 1/10th down the page)

http://penitance.wordpress.com/2010/10/ ... /#more-304

So basically you have an allegedly extremely happy gay man married to a straight woman, whose employers offer reparative sexual reorientation therapies, in a state that is facing a voter referendum on marriage equality in November. It's a bit suspicious, so it may call into question the man's motivations for posting it.

All that aside, I do hope he and his wife are genuinely happy and that they can make it last. Many who try what they are doing don't last that long, and many others who do last that long still fall apart later down the road.

give him time.

He came out because he did not want to be outed by a client.